When choosing your wedding cake, the sky is the limit. From fondant and flowers to layers of lattice, if you saw it in the pages of Modern Bride or on Ace of Cakes, it can be yours… but be prepared to pay a pretty penny for it. The truth is, you don’t have to spend a fortune to get the cake of your dreams. If this is your first time taking a walk down the aisle, there are a lot of options to consider when it comes to the cake, so the first thing you want to do is set a budget and search for a baker.

Sock Monkey Wedding Cake Topper Top Hat by SpiritMama
Before you even begin to think about what the cake will look like (I know, that’s where we all want to start) you should figure out what you want on the inside. Start by visiting several bakeries and sampling their wares. You will probably have to pay for whatever you want to try, unless you assure the bakery that you’ll be using their services. However, you do get to eat a bunch of cake, so consider it the cost of research. If you already have a cake flavor in mind, simply shop around until you find a bakery that can produce it. Some merchants will even use your own recipe if you want something out of the way, but don’t count on it. Start calling around early on if you have your heart set on Aunt Linda’s Peanut Butter Chocolate Death Cake (but be prepared to pay a little more for something that’s not on the menu). Also be aware that the interior you choose may determine the size, shape, and arrangement of your cake. For example, you probably don’t want to layer a spongy angel food cake (unless you want it to look like Atlantis sinking into the ocean). And tortes tend to be much lower profile than traditional wedding cake, so you may end up with more of a mound that a temple if you decide to go that route.
Once you’ve selected the flavor of the cake, the next step is to choose the number and arrangement of layers. The size of the cake depends entirely upon the number of guests, so have that information in mind when you order. As for the arrangement, wedding cakes are traditionally tiered, but modern cake construction can pretty much go as far as your imagination, as long as the baker agrees to the level of difficulty (again, keep the price in mind when you ask for anything customized or out of the ordinary). One modern take on traditional tiers is to make the cakes square instead of round. This is a relatively simple twist on the old style. Another alternative that has come into vogue is personal cakes for each of the guests, but this can be expensive and complicated (between the time spent on decorating, the difficulty of packing and transportation, etc.), so you may want to stick to a larger cake.

Wedding Cake, After by Afroswede
Finally, you’re ready to decorate. This can be as simple or complex as you choose, again depending on your budget and your baker’s willingness (or ability) to accommodate. In terms of frosting, you can go with butter cream (which tends to stay soft and creamy) or fondant (a pliable icing that is draped and molded to the cake). Each offers it’s own pros and cons, just keep in mind that if you live in a hot and/or humid climate, certain types of frosting and decorations are susceptible to melting, so you may want to make sure your reception hall is air conditioned. Traditionally, wedding cakes are frosted in white to symbolize purity and correspond with the bride’s dress. However, it is perfectly acceptable to embellish with your wedding colors, generally in the form of flowers (either real or edible), bows, and a variety of icing techniques (latticework, piping, etc).
For the bride who seeks to buck tradition, you can really do whatever your heart desires. Just remember that you’ll be stuck with the wedding photos, so make sure it’s something that suits your personal style and can stand the test of time. If you’re overwhelmed by options and unsure of what to choose, keep in mind that simple and elegant tend to be timeless.